My wife has a bit of a belly and she hates the way she looks. I tell her she is beautiful but she still thinks I wont love her because she is fat. I offer to help her with a diet and exercise program. don’t know what else to do. Btw, i love her for her not for what she looks like.
That’s all you have to do is believe in her and be there for her and help her like you are and encourage her. This sounds like your a nice guy and your doing a great job. She’s probably doing this for you as much as herself cause she worries how she looks for you and sometimes women think that men don’t love them if they have more weight on them.
Why do women worry so much about their appearance?
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September 28th, 2008 at 12:39 pm
That’s all you have to do is believe in her and be there for her and help her like you are and encourage her. This sounds like your a nice guy and your doing a great job. She’s probably doing this for you as much as herself cause she worries how she looks for you and sometimes women think that men don’t love them if they have more weight on them.
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September 28th, 2008 at 12:39 pm
lol the worse think you can do is join in with her when she says she fat and by offering her a diet and exercise help you made the issue even more real to her and bigger lol it really a no win win situation for use guys but by telling her she beautiful and complement her in front of others she get the message,most women do go up a size as age comes on us lol
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September 28th, 2008 at 12:42 pm
Try saying it like this: “You look like a morbidly obese hot air balloon, but I think huge hot air balloons are really neat!
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September 28th, 2008 at 12:45 pm
What a wonderful husband you must be to your wife. Many women feel down on their looks when society makes a big deal out of it all and we feel that we do not fit the perfect imagine of the models on television and magazine stands. Just keep on loving her the way that you do and follow through with that exercise program standing close to her side. Let her know that this all about the both of you staying healthy and spending many more years together loving one another for a long long time.
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September 28th, 2008 at 2:16 pm
When she lets go and trusts you to love her in any way, then you insult her it hurts too much, so she just keeps her guard up, it saves her feelings in the long run. You may never intend to love her for her looks, but time will tell. A lot of guys in the world are just shallow enough to put this idea in our minds. It’s an unsaid belief on the part of women. We know you are visual and like to look at pretty things. So, just stop trying to SOLVE the problem and listen, assure, compliment.
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September 28th, 2008 at 4:25 pm
your wife is the same as me. probably all women. i think all that of myself and my husband tells me all the same that you tell your wife. what i think it is, (coming from what i think if myself) she wants to look the way SHE wants to look and then those feelings of hers will go away. I have baby weight still to lose now after my 3rd. When I had my first i lost so much weight and was so happy and never called myself fat , ugly nothing… now i do. She needs to do what is going to make her happy, to feel better about herself. What does she complain about, then work on that. Its exactly what im doing. Good luck to you both. Take care.
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