My grandparents are devout Seventh-day Adventists and believe that Saturday is the Sabbath. They follow the Jewish law of sundown to sundown, and militantly so. This has always been an issue for me because although I am not an atheist or agnostic, I’m much, much, much more apathetic than they are and they are not okay with that.
I am graduating from college next May, and the commencement exercises are on a Saturday. I emailed my grandmother and let her know that commencement will be on a Saturday, I will be participating, and I would like for her and my grandfather to put aside their misgivings and be there as well. I didn’t say it, but this will probably be the last big event they will be alive for. I don’t plan to get married anytime soon and I will be continuing on to a 7-year graduate program and do not expect them to live that much longer.
She returned my email this morning, saying, "I love you too much to jeopardize my covenant with the Power Tower of my life, my Savior and your Savior, our Lord Jesus, by doing my pleasure (and it would be a pleasure!) of attending your Graduation on God’s Holy Day, and forfeit His promises-part of the covenant."
At this point, I’m not sure I want them there anymore. I want to be able to enjoy my graduation, not have it weighted down by their glaring disapproval. But if I don’t reply with something, she will think I hate her (it’s happened before). So I’m trying to find some Bible verses which support my perspective: that commencement exercises do not violate the Sabbath, because they are a celebration of a job well-done, not a party.
All I’ve got so far is the verse in Mark: "And he said unto them, The sabbath was made for man, and not man for the sabbath:"
Any other verses you might suggest? My Bible knowledge is incredibly lacking.
… Okay, first of all, Adventists ARE Christians. This is not an argument against Adventists.
I’m not trying to upset my grandmother, I just want to explain to her in her language why I will be at my own graduation.
She does not respond to reason. Her idea of logic is anything that springs from the mouth of the Bible, not anything from the mouth of man.
I wasn’t trying to start a flame war of Adventists. I just want some verses (or places to look) which support my perspective, please.
I am not sure there is wisdom in arguing with them, for while the SDA serve the law, I believe they still know they are saved by grace
However you coulkd try
Galations 5: 4 You have become estranged from Christ, you who attempt to be justified by law; you have fallen from grace. 5 For we through the Spirit eagerly wait for the hope of righteousness by faith